I Choose Who I Love In My Life

I’m staying with you because you wanted to stay when I didn’t even want to be by my side. You accompanied me in the darkest times, when I was turning my back on myself.

I choose you in my life because you allow me to be a better person, because I cannot laugh or cry as much as when I am by your side.

It is obvious that I choose you because I decide who I want to have by my side, because the things that can be called freedom are so few.

It makes me happy to be able to share my life with the people I want to have by my side.

I stay with who wants to stay by my side

One of the reasons I want you to be in my life is because you’ve shown me that you want to be in my life.

Perhaps the most important thing is that  no one can fulfill us more than the one who desires to do it in the most honest way.

The moment we know new people, we never know what place they will occupy in our daily lives, but quickly we understand that every detail matters and influences whether we stay or go.

This is why I am not mistaken with you. You arrived without making too much noise, wanting to know me and then showing me that you had to stay with me.

You only demanded that we take care of each other, that we support each other in the best times and the worst.

Let go who wants to go

Unlike what happened with you, I also choose who should not be in my life. I keep to myself the decision to forgive, if necessary, or to let go.

In life, nothing is a certainty, let alone relationships. Indeed, no one can be assured that his biological family will be a whole that we will always call family.

When you realize this aspect, growing up means surviving just that.

Basically, the people who love us truly represent the family we have, the one we choose or the one we allow.

To the rest of the people who come across our lives and who can be toxic relationships that bring us nothing, it is better to say goodbye and go because there is no better gift for those who are leaving than to know them. to lose. 

I am happy with the people around me

The advantage of making decisions is that we can eradicate a lot of the things that hurt us.

Deciding who we want to share our life with allows us to test our happiness, and to stay with the people who make your life stronger and happier.

• It is necessary to always choose the people who are present in good times and in bad times, those who benefit from your victories and who share your defeats.
  The best part about having someone you love by your side is that you don’t have to worry about who wins the most in the relationship.

• I am happy that way, that’s why I do it, and that I run away from people who bring me bad vibes.
  I surround myself with friends who really love me and enjoy life. Think about them several times a day and if it’s necessary, show them how much you love them.
• Don’t let the time pass without making the decision to love yourself and be loved: choose someone who deserves you and take care of them forever.
• Never forget that often it is easy to remember only one bad deed and not remember all the good things that a person has done for us.
  Dare to forgive if you really want this person to be by your side, and give them an opportunity.

Image by Pascal Campion.